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Humour or weapon?

Jokes that bring people in, not cut them.

SEWe reviewed the research on it.Friendship and the people around you

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How to use it

Use humour that brings people in or eases a moment. Notice when a joke cuts someone down, or when self-mockery quietly turned into self-attack. Never sarcasm at a fan.

How sure we are

S Evidence: strong. Large trials or many studies, pointing the same way.

E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.

Sources

Affiliative and self-enhancing humour go with better mental health, aggressive and self-defeating with worse (Schneider et al. 2018, meta-analysis) · Conti (🟠).

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