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The breath is the first word

Breathe first. Shoulders down. Then speak.

SEWe reviewed the research on it.Hard conversations

Hand-drawn diagram of framework 367, The breath is the first word: Breathe first. Shoulders down. Then speak.
Framework 367 · in one look
How to use it

Under threat you hold your breath, your shoulders rise and the next words come out louder than you mean. Before you answer: one slow conversational breath, shoulders down. Then speak. Silence can never be misquoted.

How sure we are

S Evidence: strong. Large trials or many studies, pointing the same way.

E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.

Sources

Slow breathing raises heart-rate variability (Laborde et al. 2022, meta-analysis, 🟢, see 99) · "let your breath be the first word": Jefferson Fisher (🟠).

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