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The story I'm telling myself

What happened. My story. What I need.

EWe reviewed the research on it.Hard conversations

Hand-drawn diagram of framework 361, The story I'm telling myself: What happened. My story. What I need.
Framework 361 · in one look
How to use it

Three sentences for a hard talk: "This is what happened. This is the story I'm telling myself. This is what I need." Then stop talking and let them answer. You name your interpretation as a story, so they can correct it instead of defending against it.

How sure we are

E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.

Sources

Therapist Terry Real's script, taught on the Mel Robbins podcast (🟠) · see 50: the receptive recipe.

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