
At a party or event, skip the entrance and the food. Stand where people turn round from the bar with a drink: everyone feels a second of "who now?" there, so be the answer. Or stand by the books or the art. To join a group, wait for a laugh, then: "You look like you're having a great time. May I join?"
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