Frameworks · Social · 37

Send the thanks

One specific thank-you this week. Unpolished is fine.

PWe reviewed the research on it.Friendship and the people around you

Hand-drawn diagram of framework 37, Send the thanks: One specific thank-you this week. Unpolished is fine.
Framework 37 · in one look
How to use it

People who sent thank-you letters underestimated how good the receiver would feel and overestimated how awkward it would be. One specific appreciation (what they did, and what it changed for you), unpolished.

How sure we are

P Evidence: promising. Good studies, but small or few. Use it and keep checking.

Sources

Kumar & Epley 2018.

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