Frameworks · Mind · 87

Control, influence, accept

Put your effort in the first column only.

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Hand-drawn diagram of framework 87, Control, influence, accept: Put your effort in the first column only.
Framework 87 · in one look
How to use it

One worry, three columns: what I control (my actions, my effort), what I influence (people, results), what I accept (weather, the past, other people's choices). Effort goes only to the first column.

How sure we are

E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.

P Evidence: promising. Good studies, but small or few. Use it and keep checking.

Sources

Epictetus' Enchiridion (philosophy) · small, early trials of Stoic training · it overlaps with well-tested therapies.

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