Competence first. Then the mess, one true thing at a time.

Your confession looks braver from the outside than it feels from the inside. Show the competence first, then the mess, one true thing at a time.
P Evidence: promising. Good studies, but small or few. Use it and keep checking.
E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.
Bruk et al. 2018 (seven studies, one lab) · the 1966 pratfall effect (competence first).
Not medical, legal or financial advice.
In The Ecosystem every framework comes with a daily action, a room that checks in, and the full library.