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Say what you're practising

Announce the experiment. Ask for the feedback.

EWe reviewed the research on it.Being honest about yourself

How to use it

When you start a new social skill, tell the people around you: "I'm practising using names more. Tell me if it's too much." They stop wondering why you're acting differently, and they become your coaches.

How sure we are

E Evidence: built from practice. What works for coaches and practitioners. Labelled that way.

Sources

Vanessa Van Edwards (🟠) · see 41: open the back stage.

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