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The second voice, by name

Answer the doubt by name. Firm, not cruel.

SPWe reviewed the research: 4,754 people were tested on it.Stress, nerves and calm

Hand-drawn diagram of framework 276, The second voice, by name: Answer the doubt by name. Firm, not cruel.
Framework 276 · in one look
How to use it

When the first voice says "you can't", answer it by name: "[Name], you've done harder. One more set." Firm, never cruel. A coach talks like that; a bully doesn't.

How sure we are

S Evidence: strong. Large trials or many studies, pointing the same way.

P Evidence: promising. Good studies, but small or few. Use it and keep checking.

Sources

Self-talk by name improved performance and emotion control under stress (Kross et al. 2014) · heavy "I"-talk goes with distress, though the link is small (r = .10 across 4,754 people; Tackman et al. 2018, 🟡) · self-compassion raised motivation to improve (Breines & Chen 2012, 🟡) · Goggins (🟠).

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